Build a healthier relationship before it’s too late.
Divorce lawyer turned author and creator, Pulkit Kaushik has influenced thousands of people seeking greater success and fulfillment in their personal and professional lives — through his YouTube channel XX and XY and his books on relationships, dating, and personal growth. Having left law behind, he now travels the world while pursuing his passion for writing.
Honest conversations about attraction, love, and growth
Real, direct guidance on the things that actually shape relationships — on YouTube, in his books, and one-on-one.
Attraction & Dating
What actually draws people together — and why most modern advice gets it backwards.
Communication
The emotional dynamics between men and women, and how to actually hear each other.
Marriage & Loyalty
Jealousy, trust, and the quiet patterns that make or break long-term relationships.
Personal Growth
Becoming a higher-value, more grounded man — in relationships and in life.
Available now on Amazon
Women Want Men and Men Want Dolls
On attraction, honesty, and the gap between what we say and what we want.
Secret Spots of Meghalaya
102 offbeat locations across one of India’s most beautiful, least-explored states.
He Held a Knife To My Throat
A travel memoir.
Real feedback from real sessions
A few words from people who’ve sat through a 1:1 consultation.
“I walked in skeptical about paying for relationship advice. I walked out with an actual plan. Worth every rupee.”
“Pulkit didn’t just listen — he gave me a framework I could use the same week. My conversations with my partner have completely changed.”
“The most direct, no-nonsense relationship advice I’ve ever gotten. No fluff, just real answers.”
“I’ve done therapy before, but this was different — practical, specific, and immediately useful. Highly recommend the session.”
“Best 90 minutes I’ve spent on myself in years. Pulkit cuts straight to what’s actually going wrong.”
“He asked me one question that completely reframed how I saw my relationship. Still thinking about it weeks later.”
“Blunt, honest, and exactly what I needed to hear. Booked a second session already.”
“From the first ten minutes I knew this wasn’t going to be generic advice. Genuinely helpful and worth the money.”
Want direct, one-on-one guidance?
Book a 90-minute video consultation with Pulkit over Google Meet — bring your questions on relationships, dating, or personal growth.